A really close friend of mine has been having trouble dealing with a resent instant that she could have stopped.... even thought she has nothing to do with the problem she is still betting herself up about it.... she knows that I'm really good at keeping things to myself but sometimes i worry that I'm giving her the wrong advice. or maybe not enough advice.... i no that she is a great friend and would do anything for anyone i just wished that i knew exactly what to say to her... she has always been there for me and i just want to do the same for her... i just hope that the advice that i give her she will take to heart because it wasn't her fault and there was nothing that she could of done different.